The downtime is never foolish. Again and again, keep telling yourself that.
No, it's not the norm. Yes, you might "miss out."
But, let's be clear - you aren't here to match the norms. Nor can you be present for all things. You must not get wrapped up in that.
Instead, ask yourself honestly - what's the route that truly brings you greater peace?
You'd be foolish not to respect that.