imperfect

Was this an imperfect use of today?

Probably.

Is that okay?

Definitely.

the greater folly

The downtime is never foolish. Again and again, keep telling yourself that.

No, it's not the norm. Yes, you might "miss out."


But, let's be clear - you aren't here to match the norms. Nor can you be present for all things. You must not get wrapped up in that.


Instead, ask yourself honestly - what's the route that truly brings you greater peace?

You'd be foolish not to respect that.

your compass

There will be times when others tell you something with the best of intentions. They will recommend a certain course of action or way of viewing things.

But, in heeding their advice, you will find dissonance within yourself. You'll find that route simply cannot be the route for you.

It'll be a confusing thing to learn. Because it will come from people you respect. And, it may even be a route that works for them or for others. 

You'll wonder how you could possibly move against the grain. But, you have to learn to trust yourself. You have to listen to the voice within you. You cannot be afraid to course correct.

Yes, it's true - we can learn so much from one another. But, also don't forget - we are each traveling life uniquely. We're crafted so incredibly distinctly. We're not meant to be mere replicas of one other. That reminder should help you realize - perhaps movement against norms or advice is actually a flag telling you - you're on track.

Start listening to your internal compass. You may not at first even know it's there. Look for it. Become more aware, and you'll notice it showing up more and more. You'll wonder how you possibly failed to notice it there.

celebrate your journey

When you expect an overnight re-haul, you set yourself up for disappointment. Unrealistic expectations define your movement instead of a genuine quest for excellence. 

The root of your problems, though you may attribute it to your inability to reach that point of perfection, is really tied to the inability to celebrate the success of each step of the journey, regardless of how small it may seem.

Those moments of celebration are essential because they strengthen you. They provide the fuel you need for the journey. So, let yourself bask in them. Free yourself of the guilt about where you still need to go. Soak up every bit of the progress you've made, and let it serve as evidence of where you still can, and will, go. 

trust yourself

Why do you assume that you must not know... enough, as much, the truth, etc?

Do you realize how harmful that is?

You're withholding from yourself opportunities to grow ever stronger. You're keeping others from having the amazing opportunity to experience the fullness of you - your spirit, your talent, your gifts, your beauty.

Do you not realize how deeply saddening that is?

Do not stall out. Do not now steal precious moments feeling guilty or wallowing in regret. Instead, choose to change starting right now. Choose to be vulnerable. Choose to be authentic. Choose to trust that you have power within you. Dare to believe in yourself.

That strength desperately needs to be released... not for your sake alone, but for so many beyond you. If only you could see that.

Trust.

create the future

The best way to create the future is to simply start living in it.

Instead of casting off your perspective as foolish, Pollyanna idealism, assess - is that vision you see a future worth creating?

If so, you're far more on track than you give yourself credit for.