In discussions with other coaches, several folks have shared
the strengths they’ve brushed aside or had trouble owning.
Fascinating, but I don’t have one of those.
At least, that’s what I told myself. Did my denial truly run
that deep? How could I be so blind to the fact that my attempts to embrace the
“go with the flow” LA culture have simultaneously stripped away something so
inherently me – my talent for discipline?
I realize now that the term “discipline” seemed like some
effort to kindly mask “rigid” and “stick up her ass.” So, I flocked instead to
an opposite extreme – unstructured living. The problem is, though it may suit
some folks, it doesn’t work for me. By restricting myself of use of my
strength, albeit subconsciously, I found myself feeling incredibly weak. Deprived
of my natural rhythm, I felt lost.
It’s been a needed reminder – while use of one’s strengths
feels good, it does take work and intention. And yes, your strengths will often make you stand
out in a crowd. Despite the necessary effort and vulnerability, it’s an
investment that’s entirely worthwhile. When I actively harness my talent for
creating structure, I feel powerful. I’m far more productive, insightful,
helpful and creative.
How ‘bout you? Which
strength are you brushing aside? What does it take to pick it back up?
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